Caroline Kennedy
One of the things I have always told my children and my students is that anything worthwhile takes work. If it's easy, it's usually not worth it. However, the holidays should be a time of joy and comfort, especially for those of us who have had to fight or are still fighting the big C.
Speaking of the big C, because of recovery, today, I had the opportunity to spend time with my beautiful daughter and my grandson. Today, is Janie's 22nd birthday. I have to say that I couldn't be prouder of this young lady. She has learned how to be at peace with her Bi Polar Disorder, she is the best mommy I know, she is a wonderful wife, and she is my best friend. I am so grateful to have her in my life. She hasn't always been easy, but Janie is an example of hard work being so worth it!
After spending time with my beautiful little girl, I had lunch with my mommy and her bestie. These women are my idols. I look up to them so much. They have taken care of me all of my life. I am so appreciative for their wisdom and love.
Then, I was off to check in with some of my students. (Shhhh! I am not supposed to be working! Seriously! Don't get me in trouble!) It's almost Christmas break, and this can be a hard time for some of our at risk kids. This also gave me a few minutes to spend with my own BFF. Today was a day that reminded me that the power of women in my life is strong. I am so incredibly blessed! Do I say that a lot? Who cares! It's true.
So, on to today's tip:
Know your limits.
This has been a really hard one for me, but I'm finally learning how to ask for help when I need it. It is more important to feel good and be healthy than it is to have clean baseboards, although I really like clean baseboards. I ask my kids to work on the garage and yard. Tonight I will probably be tired, so they will help me with dinner. My son's girlfriend wrapped presents for me last night, because my chest was swollen and sore. My son drove me to my doctor appointment to keep me from getting too fatigued (my doctor is 65 miles away -- that's one way -- 130 miles round trip). My mom runs small errands for me. If she's already out and about, she'll pick up little stuff I need like snow for my Christmas village or cat food. The cat eats a lot. Actually, he shares his food with all the cats in the neighborhood. Stupid cat. Asking for help does not make you weak or lazy. It makes you smart, and it gives others the opportunity to be part of the holiday. Think about it. It's kind of selfish to do everything yourself. How do your kids learn about the work that goes into the traditions if you don't let them participate? Stop being selfish. Share the joy of making the holidays special.